She is going to dump you. What if you are sexually incompatible. I love him so much, but it's torture spending so much time without him. Because if you can't live and let live, you both need to dive deep into this stuff and figure out what you believe and want in your life. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. They are just really convinced they are right.
Over the years, it would have felt increasingly burdensome to accommodate practices that seemed to me like superstition. The ideal, in my opinion, is that she discovers what we all know about the lies the church tells her. I agree we shouldn't continue if we can't accept each other as we are. Hopefully they have some say in it, but I'm speaking about other churchgoers' expectations here, and probably your wife's. I completely agree, but I think the critical part is that he needs to talk to her. Religious differences, however are real. Submit a new link. She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret.
I am a non Mormon. I've told him multiple times that I don't care how much money he'll make, but one of his big things is that he wants to provide for me and his family in the future, with that being one of his main motivators. Either way, if you have kids and you don't convert, she will divorce you and take your kids away from you and you will be shunned from her community. I really enjoy your blog and your humor. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. We need to believe fully and then we make choices, not the other way around. It does kick your butt!. Attacking other posters is not allowed, but this forum recognizes the difference between a belief and the person holding to that belief. She converts to your religion.
Any advice from people who have gone through this would be awesome. They know that they are the best. If you think you are, you might be. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. Does he have a faith similarly conversion-focused as I could see that being a challenge. I tried to date Mormon women, honestly. We have 5 kids and my eldest wants to become a doctor.