Of course I feel slighted at times, but I check myself and remember that my SO is doing his best given all his demands. I know in terms of so many things as well as financial stability choosing another path is very uncertain, we would also have the student loans we would have to pay back. If he's in year 1 of the residency, he's got probably years left finishing residency then fellowship. I have been understanding of the demands of his career for many years, but I have come to realized that I'm not happy living this way. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. Glad we can be your connection to society. Their job is HARD. She still lives in her hometown though. I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor.
Females are not expected to serve and MOST of the girls that do, only do so because they do not have a suitable read: If your GF is an attractive girl and still ended up on a mission then she is about as fanatical as they come and if she isn't already she will be slowly trying to convert you. I also expected that my spouse would be temple worthy and that I would get married in the temple, which was not the case. There is no way this will work out. I have many friends and members of my family who married within the church and later divorced. This is how I felt when I married my exmo husband. I met him today and we talked about what he wants to do in the future. About ten years ago, I realized I needed to quit qualifying my excellent husband who is a better man than many Mormon men I knowI realized I needed to raise my kids to think of him as completely equal to the men they knew at church.
I don't think we could have a real conversation about those points either. I also definitely don't want her raising my future children, though, and I'll be very clear about that. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. When you are disappointed that he is called into the hospital, focus on what he is providing for someone in need. Up to this point, she has just assumed that all atheists are innately evil people. I won't lie, there are times I have said to myself "what am I doing living like this. They are always dressed in decent clothing, and the same is expected of their date. The odds are definitely not in OPs favor for something like this working for him. Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient. Mormons are also taught "Families can be together forever.
I wish I could find a support group in South Africa. These insane hours are wearing on me and I fear what has happened to so many I know will start to happen to us. Like you, I didn't marry for the paycheck wouldn't have done me any good. How the Book of Mormon was translated using a sacred rock. And it can be done any time during the day, so scheduling is easy. YOu ladies out there My soon to be fiance is a doctor, he'll be ending his internship in and maybe will do his postgraduate abroad. You'll take out the trash, coordinate all the home repairs, pay all the bills, do all the yard work and generally work your ass off until you're emotionally and physically drained. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. The independent work is just as important as the work we do as a couple.