Hi everyone - like you all, I have been finding it hard dating my boyfriend who is a doctor. I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand. My parents, siblings and grandparents are all active members; as am I. It is tempting for Mormon girls to become lazy because they have such a high standard compared to typical girls. But it was frightening Toughen up if you're the doctors girl.
You are the woman of valor eshet khayil sung about by Solomon in Proverbs 31 http: Good for you, good for your husband, and definitely good for your childen. Can anyone suggest specific talking points from content on LDS. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. My wife told me she does not want to know if the church is false, so I don't pressure her.
You and your husband are truly a team, even though things are not always equal. This is the rule rather than the exception. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. I married someone that wasn't of my faith and it worked great. There is no such thing as a perfect Mormon family- regardless of whether the parents are sealed or not. I'm on mobile and it isn't letting me post the URL. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. However, like the comment posted on March 18th the program only had one or two wives and the ones they do have are busy with their kids.
Mormon girls are raised to believe their worth is how young they marry and how many kids they have. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. Honestly, it isn't her fault. She's really attractive, too. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true. BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. And no one has the right to judge you for your decision.