We need to get over ourselves and start loving each other how the Lord intended. She is probably thinking she can convert you if she is with you long enough and is a good enough example. We have family prayer every day and read the scriptures occasionally. There's a picture of the magic rock he found while digging a neighbor's well. In fact, your GF is probably one of the countless Mormon women who get married only to find out they have zero sex drive because of what they learned growing up. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off.
Move on, but after thanksgiving. What about the folks at church. I wouldn't just start bringing up the ces letter and the problems in it. On top of their day job, they also have to read volumes upon volumes of medical journals to keep up with their profession.
I simply do NOT believe he and I will not be together after we die. Love and support them just as you would if your husband was a carpenter. Your comments make my day. Just trying to make it through the day.