I want to serve a mission in my old age with my husband. At what age do you baptize. If you have a literal belief that you need to have a temple marriage to go to the celestial kingdom, you will always keep a secret desire to convert your spouse. January 17, February 18, Spending time with this guy is hard to come by. Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Anyway, we've discussed marriage already. I agree she should be able to watch a movie or do her own research. It'll reinforce the wisdom of running from this disaster in the making.
Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no. Tips Mormon girls are much like other girls their age, in that they want guys to respect them and treat them well. She wants the captain of a ship who can direct all aspects of a relationship, including spiritual direction. Immediateley after we got married I realised things were not going to be as I thought. Otherwise her family will likely feel incomplete to her.
Good Questions to Ask Someone. My advice is, as others have said, have no expectations, expect that you will spend the majority of holidays, birthdays, family gatherings, valentines day, anniversaries alone or with other family or friends. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. Wow, so nice to know others feel just like me. Do some research of your own as well, so that you know a little more about the person you are dating. Good thing is you can have multiple wives in heaven if you become exalted. This is wonderful and in accordance with the desires of a loving Father in Heaven, but it can turn a marriage on its ear, if the spouse is unprepared. Having said that I'm not looking to get married any time soon, so no.
Do what feels right. Do whatever it takes to at least learn from your relationship with your Mormon crush. To them, everyone is either TBM, hasn't learned the truth yet, or has some kind of personal failing laziness, desire to sin, allowed themself to be deceived by satan, etc. I guess I was just hoping there was way for it to work. On her mind, her eternal salvation depends on marrying a worthy priesthood holder. Try a variety of dates. As soon as she becomes dissatisfied, she will turn face and educate the OP about just how wrong it would be for her to stay with him.