Again, though the evolving times may have brought about a relaxation in this rule, it is still followed by many youngsters. I think there's a chance you two can find a way to agree on a lifestyle and values. I do know other doctors who have more balance but take a cold hard look at what your life will be like if your man is married to medicine. My dad was in the bishopric for most of my childhood, and I was never the person you describe here. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. My mom works in the medical profession, and it was always hard when she was on call or had to work late, but she definitely works hard. We can also save our errant children by our valiancy too. There is a lot about Mormonism I am still struggling to understand, but I am reading faith-based memoirs and studying up on Mormonism as well as other religions but the relevance here is on Mormonism.
Love in Different Languages. I think she sounds great but she won't be able to not bring it up. Odds are majorly against this dude. I truly believe that if a man cheats he was always inclined to do so. If I were to signal him everytime I thought about him, I'd be on the phone with him almost all of my waking hours. Now he is home for dinner every night, takes a fraction of the calls, and doesn't work holidays. I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand. I have been looking for a support group on facebook but couldn't find one so I have created one.
All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem. Yup, know how that feels. I remember when I had my first son via C-section, our families came to the hospital with Champagne and celebrated, not even one asked about my surgery….
But now he is a senior doc and is called on for all the difficult stuff and can't or won't say no. The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints teaches that all sexual relationships outside of marriage defined as the legal union between a man and a woman are sinful. In other words, eternal marriage really is worth it, I think.
