I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. RUN like the wind. Perhaps it was just her personality but I find most doctors repulsive. Hopefully you two will be on the same page and can be open with each other so that you have matching expectations. Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. You may look on here and see all of us, but a lot of us got out much much older. I remember one time I did just that with a group of friends and someone saying, "Oh you have it so rough. While the Church allows dating at 16, it discourages serious relationships until you both are older and considering marriage.
Its was written in shorthand so its hard to read. I'm a first year medical student and met my boyfriend in college when he was in med school now in his residency. This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. And how little some men understand the value of a well-dusted baseboard. My doctor husband also has a daughter from a previous marriage who he travels to see every other weekend. Some other times I admire myself and ask God for help. At least people of different races are aware of those differences, and are on alert to deal with them. How many chances will a girl have to find such a wonderful husband candidate. I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious.
I was spiritually prepared to receive the answer that I sought. And even when they are home with you Expectations of time together is a mirage. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. Maybe if I met him at another point in time, things would have worked with us. Again, I deeply love my dad, but these were things that I had to deal with. Make up stories about being a soldier at war or a sailor at sea keeping me away from my love.
But on saying that I do empathise with you all and a Doctor is very challenging and I know my Dad was always working and it is a demanding job for their spouses to live their lives but hey nothing at the top is ever easy. I am his wife and we have 4 children. Thank you so much for posting your thoughts. She sounds like she is worth the extra work. She won't look at anything "anti-mormon" but if it's on LDS.