If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. And now, a final word: Send your query to askmormongirl gmail. No matter that he's married - maybe they can lure him away. I know you got a zillion replies, and I have not read them. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons. Such beliefs make the girls confident about being women. I admit it is sometimes depressing going to bed without him and getting up seeing him still studying but I am sure we will survive this. Find out what your partner thinks of as non-negotiable. The Book of Abraham one admits it's not a translation.
By the end of the first date with my husband I knew I wanted him to be a part of my life. For example, the irish, polish and the italians basically intermarried. I spent a lot of time on my knees and made several trips to the temple before I felt l could trust that what I knew I wanted to be promptings actually were. This is something I see on an everyday basis. Typical American girls have the government to make them feel secure. I am totally okay with anything that doesn't place physical or mental demands on me. My husband is finishing up residency and is never around. I wish I could reach out to this girl and tell her not to pass up an awesome guy.
I don't know any other doctor's wives. I have observed in relationships among friends and family inside and outside of the church that holding a temple recommend does not guarantee a strong, happy marriage. You can also attend their singles conferences, or participate in social activities organized by the Church.
Also, love how you describe how God has our backs and we can actually act on the notion of things hoped for that are not seen instead of the quaint pseudo idea that all things are known in advance, step by step, and lead to mortal and eternal bliss. I told him that this wasn't working for me. I appreciate all the replies explaining the extent of the aggravation and pain I likely will face. This always seemed terribly wrong to me. He told me that the ER doesn't share and I'm pretty much the mistress to the hospital.