It's unfair to assume that she feels that way without asking her. I have recently seen too much of these false promises that people use to make others feel good. While that is the case sometimes, it Is much more of an exception than a rule. Earlier I mentioned "Even if the church believes a bunch of crazy nonsense, and she believes it too, I still really like her and would like to see whether we can have some good intellectual conversations about this stuff. Unfortunately, this has led to a culture of Mormon girls who are absolutely obsessed with Disney and even as adults dream of being Disney princesses. If you have tended to straddle the line between light and dark in the past, or have been a partier, expect to make some changes for this relationship, and expect certain things from your new crush. If you can genuinely deconvert her then cool. Masculine attributes attract healthy, beautiful women, no matter where they come from. I don't want to stress him. He also has sacrificed a more easy lifestyle.
I'd suggest taking issue with things that specifically bug you the most. I think your response is Bang on. When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint. Can anyone suggest specific talking points from content on LDS. So far I have found it is a day to day thing. Is it naive to think we could raise our children to fully participate in two different faiths. You are a good person and she can see that. If you are only after non-serious dates and spend a great time, you should be fine with this set up. But God works in mysterious ways.
It is how she is programmed and it is a fundamental tenant of the religion. I think more than anything, the thing that gets me is this feeling of being marginalized in his life. And don't get hung up on all the "lofty doc" stuff. How is that gonna work. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. The history of racism and violence is upsetting.
Only idiots are unfriendly to non-Mormon spouses. There is still a chance you can work out your differences, but it will require major concessions on both sides. Of course, it will cause fights, as well. I want to make this relationship work so bad, but I feel like he will never understand. Make sure the girl you like is already 16 years old. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset.