I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort. If you do end up having sexual relations, she will feel guilty, and it will affect your relationship, you can count on that. I work in a different industry and have worked away from home my fair share. God loves every last one of us, regardless of religious affiliation. My partner finishes her training in five years and she has expressed a strong desire to have children then.
While Scientology is way worse hopefully the parallels will get her thinking. The Church encourages you to use dating as an opportunity to show your respect not just for others, but for yourself. He may never want anything to do with Mormons or the church again. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. This brings me to the thorniest bit: If your wife is Mormon, your kids will be expected to be Mormon. She's really attractive, too. Qlee, what do YOU need. Trust your instincts and your spiritual promptings. Take what you read with a grain of salt.
I currently just started dating someone who is not only in the military, but a doctor. Should I stay or let him do his thing. There's this fantasy perpetuated in the religion that if you're good and pure enough, that any man you meet would eventually see the truth and join the church for you. I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. Dont aggressively try to destroy her faith but bring up philosophical thinking points.
Anyways, good luck, I hope it works out. In many ways, you yield some authority to the church. My wife and her family are a good example of this. However, a few months before her exams she suddenly said that she didn't think we were right for each other and broke up with me. Catholics basically married catholics and protestants basically married protestants. I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit.